Confucianism: It is never too late to make peace (ZUO ZHUAN, DUKE YIN YEAR 1)

Confucian Wisdom

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不及黃泉,無相見也。……若闕地及泉,隧而相見,其誰曰不然?……遂為母子如初。

— ZUO ZHUAN, DUKE YIN YEAR 1

"If you dig into the earth to the yellow springs, and then make a subterranean passage, where you can meet each other, who can say that your oath is not fulfilled? … After this, they were mother and son as before."
Modern Translation & Meaning

"Angry words can be taken back. If you have hurt a parent, find a way back today: a call, a note, or a simple "I'm sorry.""

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