Don't rush away from moments of connection (过犹待,百步余)

Chapter 3: Navigating Relationships (出则弟)

DZG-046•Chapter 3: Navigating Relationships
过犹待,百步余

— Guò Yóu Dài, Bǎi Bù Yú

Modern Translation & Meaning

"Don't rush away from moments of connection. Linger slightly to ensure the other person is settled or safely on their way before you disconnect."

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