Do not be self-righteous (对尊长，勿见能)
Chapter 3: Navigating Relationships (出则弟)
DZG-042•Chapter 3: Navigating Relationships
对尊长，勿见能
— Duì Zūn Zhǎng, Wù Jiàn Néng
Modern Translation & Meaning
"Do not be self-righteous. Trade arrogance for humility; focus on listening and making others feel valued rather than proving how smart you are."
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