Refuse to play the comparison game (彼说长，此说短)

Chapter 5: Integrity & Authentic Communication (信)

DZG-101•Chapter 5: Integrity & Authentic Communication

彼说长，此说短

— Bǐ Shuō Cháng, Cǐ Shuō Duǎn

Modern Translation & Meaning

"Refuse to play the comparison game. Gossiping about others' failures or envying their success poisons your own potential."

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