Allow yourself to truly grieve (丧三年，常悲咽)
Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family (入则孝)
DZG-031•Chapter 2: The Art of Honoring Family
丧三年，常悲咽
— Sāng Sān Nián, Cháng Bēi Yè
Modern Translation & Meaning
"Allow yourself to truly grieve. The depth of your sorrow is simply a reflection of the depth of your love; honor their memory by holding space for your pain."
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