Master the art of the pause (言语忍，忿自泯)
Chapter 3: Navigating Relationships (出则弟)
DZG-038•Chapter 3: Navigating Relationships
言语忍，忿自泯
— Yán Yǔ Rěn, Fèn Zì Mǐn
Modern Translation & Meaning
"Master the art of the pause. In heated family moments, swallowing a sharp retort is the fastest way to de-escalate conflict and protect the bond."
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