Turn inadequacy into fuel (不如人，当自砺)

Chapter 5: Integrity & Authentic Communication (信)

DZG-108•Chapter 5: Integrity & Authentic Communication

不如人，当自砺

— Bù Rú Rén, Dāng Zì Lì

Modern Translation & Meaning

"Turn inadequacy into fuel. When someone outworks or outsmarts you, let it ignite a relentless drive to level up your own game."

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