Use the flaws of others as a mirror (见人恶,即内省)
Chapter 5: Integrity & Authentic Communication (信)
DZG-105•Chapter 5: Integrity & Authentic Communication
见人恶,即内省
— Jiàn Rén È, Jí Nèi Xǐng
Modern Translation & Meaning
"Use the flaws of others as a mirror. Instead of judging them, ask yourself, "Where am I making that exact same mistake in my own life?""
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