World Religions (12 Traditions)Deck: Confucian Wisdom

Confucianism: Obedience alone is not filial piety (CLASSIC OF FILIAL PIETY, CH. 15)

Confucian Wisdom

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父有爭子，則身不陷於不義。故當不義，則子不可以不爭於父……從父之令，又焉得為孝乎！

— CLASSIC OF FILIAL PIETY, CH. 15 (諫諍)

"The father who had a son that would remonstrate with him would not sink into the gulf of unrighteous deeds. Therefore when a case of unrighteous conduct is concerned, a son must by no means keep from remonstrating with his father… Hence, since remonstrance is required in the case of unrighteous conduct, how can (simple) obedience to the orders of a father be accounted filial piety?"
Modern Translation & Meaning

"Loving your parents does not mean going along with something wrong. If a parent is about to do wrong, speak up kindly and respectfully, because you care."

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