Confucianism: Honor your parents' values and traditions even long after they have passed away (ANALECTS 1.11)
Confucian Wisdom
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— ANALECTS 1.11
"When your father is alive, observe his intentions. When he is deceased, observe his conduct. If for three years you do not change your father's ways, you can be called filial."
Modern Translation & Meaning
"Honor your parents' values and traditions even long after they have passed away."
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