Confucianism: If your parents are wrong (ANALECTS 4.18)

Confucian Wisdom

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— ANALECTS 4.18

"In serving your parents, you may gently remonstrate with them. If they do not listen, remain respectful and do not resent them."

Modern Translation & Meaning

"If your parents are wrong, tell them gently. If they don't listen, stay respectful and don't hold a grudge."

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